Sex And Women

WHAT YOU MUST KNOW IF YOU ARE PLEASING THEM
Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. Women find stimulating conversations a way of stimulating later. For them, talking and feeling emotions are more important than sex and serves as a huge turn on. An intellectual conversation can be very arousing for those women whose lives revolve around domesticity. So make time to talk during an evening walk or over a relaxed dinner. A husband must tell his wife how much he loves her, speaking in an intimate, reassuring whisper.

REASSURANCE
Women need reassurance about almost everything and especially their looks. Caring husbands always sense such anxieties in their wives. Appreciate and praise what you do find attractive; the smoothness of her skin, her husky voice, her alluring lips, her captivating eyes or her delightful smile.

A woman operates from the heart. While a man can separate sexual activity from the stresses and strains of everyday living, a woman needs to have had a good day in order to make love in a way that is enjoyable. How her husband treats her outside the bedroom greatly influences a woman's responses in bed. An unconstructive criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, to feel enthusiastic and to be passionate during sex. Good sex is a continuum of affection and closeness. If a husband surprises his wife by coming home early from work, by bringing her flowers or a gift for no reason in particular, this thoughtfulness will go a long way in deepening a couple's intimacy and translate into greater pleasure in conjugal relations. Tell her you love her often.

THE BIG O
Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his wife to a mind-blowing climax. But orgasm is not always essential for a woman. The point to remember here is that women often have lovemaking spoilt for them by the pressure they feel from their partners to reach orgasm. Most women derive almost as much pleasure from physical closeness, emotional intimacy and foreplay as from orgasm. Keeping lovemaking light can take the pressure to perform off both partners. Sex need not only be an expression of endless, abiding love and passion, it can also be romantically mischievous and sensually naughty.

WHAT WOMEN WANT
A very tough one. They are very mischievous. Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness. Women want romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. A couple must work out how tenderness and sensitivity can be expressed in other non sexual ways. Many women long for intimacy and affection after the love making. It's the little things that make the difference and Bryan Adams has so rightly caught the feeling in the song,
‘Have you really loved a woman?’