Some people always know how to say things. When they speak everyone gets pays attention. This is not an inborn talent; it is a habit that can be cultivated from the childhood. So teach your child to say his words in a confident way, to take stand for his own words. Your child gets bullied in school or elsewhere and you go and fight with the bully parents. Instead try making your child strong enough to face the challenges of such problems. To present themselves as strong individuals that people take them seriously. Those kids who learn this art goes a long way in living a respectable life. People listen to them and even if someone challenges them, they don’t lose hope and go on to prove themselves. They develop as emotionally intelligent individuals who don’t get feared to express themselves and even if they need anything, they don’t feel small by asking for it.

THE FIRM KIDS
Such kids don’t get shy of talking about things or friends especially when these friends are going against his/her wishes. If they fail to understand something in the class, they don’t think twice to ask the teacher about it. They have leadership traits and they also possess power to influence decisions.

DEVELOPING THE CONFIDENCE
We all; children and adults crave for a personality of confidence. Lot of us doesn’t have the guts to say what we feel. We fear that whether saying it would be the right thing or not. We fear that we won’t be accepted if they say is unaccepted by the others and that fear makes we loose stand on our say.  But there are also some who are firm on their say, who don’t fear the consequences and take a stand for themselves.  Induce the art of saying they say to your children which will give confidence to their personality.

1. When you are talking to your child about something remember to be firm.
2. Let others also say their say and don’t get upset even if you don’t like it and let the other finish his say.
3. Don’t always be strict with your child and don’t always tell them what to do or what not to do. They will feel distant from you.
4. Do watch the body language, firm people stand straight when they are saying something and the expressions don’t change quick while conversing.
5. Encourage your child to talk about his problems and help him in solving them.
6. Spend quality time with your children. It will let you know their thoughts.
7. Encourage your child to take part in extracurricular activities.
8. If you want to talk about an issue make sure to talk alone with your child.
9. Practice being firm on your say as practice makes the man perfect.