No two human beings on this earth think alike, so the opinions sometimes clash and give birth to arguments. Arguments always happen with people whom you spend time and talk the most. They are very much a part of our lives especially the arguments of couples. They argue on almost everything but then, have their own way of settling down with things. Arguments though later solved can leave an unhealthy impact over the child if any in the family. Disagreements should be tackled tactfully once children come into the picture.
A child look up to the parents as role models. When two different individuals live together, differences are bound to arise. Teach your children how to argue a point in a healthy manner and they will learn the importance of taking stand for the right thing.

ACCEPT THE DIFFERENCES
Make children see that all of us are different and will behave differently. Make children feel comfortable with the differences that occur, and thereby making it easier for them to accept a certain degree of family conflict. Try not to argue in front of your children as they feel insecure whenever they witness parents arguing. Children who are constantly exposed to their parent’s arguments become extra-sensitive to conflict.

ARGUE HEALTHY
We often forget that children are around when we are arguing. In the heat of the argument, parents sometimes raise their voices, and say something inappropriate in front of their children.
During an occasional argument, it is important not to abuse and treat each other with dignity and respect, and to attempt solving the problem than arguing about it.

Children become frightened and disgusted if they continue witnessing parent’s arguments or fights. Remember that kids suffer more when their parents are unhappy and bitter in their marriage.

WHAT TO DO?
The best way to argue in any situation is to allow the other person to say his say. This helps in detecting the real issues and remembers to be non-aggressive. Negotiation like matured adults and remember not to use foul language or hurt others feelings just because your opinion does not match. Let the child witness the civilized behaviour and include it in their own social skill set. Another useful tool is to apologize to your children if they inadvertently witness a bad argument.
No matter how serious the issue is, using foul language, calling names or disparaging each other is highly contraindicated. Avoid yelling and use a moderate tone as this is a far more effective means of putting forth your point, and also makes your spouse more willing to listen to you.

We may get irritated and interrupt each other while arguing. When we do, we are teaching our children to follow. One of the most valuable skills children will ever acquire is the art of losing graciously. We can help them learn this by being good sports ourselves.