Both home and work environments are totally different and most contemporary couples find that their days are divided between work and home, sometimes unequally. At home you are with a lawfully wedded spouse and at work with a lawfully employed colleague. Both of which you know very well. Ass your house spouse rules your love and shares your bedroom, your office colleague rules your business and shares your boardroom. And the colleague is like your office spouse and you are dependent on both. But keep it that way and don’t go beyond boundaries.
As far as possible does not use house time to e-mail or call your office spouse? This can annoy and enrage your household. A common cause of jealousy is the fear of being shut out of an important part of a spouse’s life. If the office spouse calls, tell the other about the conversation.
Speak loudly. Do not whisper. Discourage calls from the work place. Keep the business where it needed that is in the office.
It is important that office colleagues have a fulfilling sex life and do remember the rule that not with one another. Avoid occasions when your relationship can turn into a romantic or sexual liaison. It is contrary t every natural impulse for a man to associate freely with a women, without occasionally being conscious of physical desire, and when he is conscious of it, the whole machinery of passion is set into motion. And if something happened too, call it off. It is wise to reveal what happened only if there is a possibility that the discretion will be discovered to humiliate the betrayed party, in which case it is better to risk the consequences than to live with the anxiety. But if the knowledge of what you have done can be kept under wraps, and will destroy your marriage and your job, both of which you want to keep intact, it is better to bear the burden of guilt alone.
Stay committed to your lawfully wedded spouse. Business and pleasure are a bad mix. Beware of sharing domestic matters, grievances and hurts with your office colleague, unless there was very good reason to do so as it can trigger jealousy and suspicion. Conversely, there is no need to titillate your house spouse with tales about the colleague’s romantic and sexual escapades, or personal tribulations. Dealing closely with two different people can allow yourself esteem to blossom and allow you to get a ring side understanding about the opposite sex. It is said that you don’t know a person well until you live with or work with him or her.
Spouses who work together can have a richer, more fulfilling and equally balanced partnership based as much on friendship and intellectual equality as on sexual attraction and romantic love.
There can be security in familiarity, mutual priorities, interests, values, without the threats of outside interests. The common goal can be the binding force, the true basis of intimacy.
If you work together you should try to demarcate areas of responsibilities, have your own skills, interests, friends, leisure time, even separate vacations.