“A relationship is like a beautiful sunrise. You have to let
Its warmth seep in you and celebrate the moment…..make each dawn, each sunset special, because you are special….your togetherness is very special.”

Everyday is filled with magic. But most often, in our hurry to rush through the day and get all the work done, we forget to experience this celebration of life. The sunrises and sunsets lose their sheen. A rainbow after a long spell of rain doesn’t charm us anymore. A bright moonlight bathing the land with its pearly glow does not fill us with longing. Like everyone else, we carry on with the routine, lost in our boredom, lost in our habits. And the days go on, devoid of magic, devoid of joy.

 And yet, it is so simple to recreate all this. Don’t you ever wonder how beautiful it would be if you could go back to the time when you first met your spouse? If you could recreate the first hesitant touches, the intensity of your feelings, the care with which you treated each other? Believe me, it is possible. If you have been in love, and if you still love each other, it is never too late to reach out for each other and recreate the romance. When was the last time you did something special for your spouse? When was the last time you celebrated together not because it was a birthday or an anniversary, but just because you felt like it?

“Relationships need to be nurtured”. You need to remind yourself that it is special, that what you have is special. And the way to do that is to celebrate your relationship in as many ways as you can. Here are a few suggestions to help you attain the goal:

• Turn yourself into a celebration, of your togetherness, of your joy. Do something special.

• Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don’t plan. Just do something that both of you have wanted to do for a long time. Let your love occur naturally.

• Have a private party for just the two of you. Candles, music- it really works.

• Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be joyous. Release your sense of humor. Have fun with your love.

• At the end of the day take your partner by the hand. Get back to romance.

• Watch a sunrise or sunset together.

So, even if you spend the rest of years together at the same place, doing the same old things, you could still find a way to make it all special. Because you are special. Your togetherness is special.