Marriages are made in heaven but it is the duty of people living on earth to make it last long and happy. Is there any one easy formula to keep the marital meter ticking away? Well that’s the question no married person can actually answer and those who tell opinions based upon their experiences or experiences around them. If I’d give you mine I'd give these three a shot: Good sex, good food and good laughs. A couple who laughs together generally stays together.
WATCH THAT COUPLE
The one couple in the car cruising smoothly next to yours make you wonder why they are not talking. Couple-spotting is a pretty neat exercise and an addictive one too. Car conduct says a great deal about the state of a couple's marriage. If an animated conversation is in progress, or you notice frequent eye contact, its safe lo predict that there's something zingy going on between the pair. But if you see two people locked in their own worlds, staring stonily out of their respective windows, you won't be wrong in guessing that there are plenty of solitary stretches in the relationship. For the record, eight out of 10 couples drive in complete silence, barely exchanging a word. We become more used to be around each other than reaching out to each others need. For a fulfilling marriage lot of things matter and if you are happy in your relationship chances are you’ll stick together in thick and thin. Little secret ingredients that matter in the recipe of yummy marriage are discussed as follows:
LITTLE TOUCHES THAT MATTER
A married couple is dining in a restaurant. Take a look at what happens when the food arrives. Do they share it? Does the husband fondly place a piece of paneer tikka on his wife's plate? Does she urge him to taste her dish? Do they laugh over something small, like when he clumsily knocks a glass of water onto her lap? Does she lean across with a napkin to brush away the breadcrumbs from his lapel? Or do they attack their plates greedily, glare at other diners or snap at one another between mouthfuls? Comfortably married people are easy to recognize in such places like restaurants, airports etc. They are the ones watching out for each other. He fetches her coffee while she massages her tired feet in the lounge. She gives him the business section from the newspaper in her hand. He helps her with her coat. Little touches, but they speak volumes about what's really going on between the two.
TRUST AND FIDELITY
There were two essential components in their marriage which formed the very basis of their transparent love for one another: Complete trust and complete fidelity. The commitment to the marriage is total and all encompassing, and a happy married couple seemed so engrossed in nourishing what they shared.